By GottaLaff
Bristol Herald Courier-Andre Teague
Keshia Cantor, left, talks to her mom, Pam Yates, about a religious pamphlet that was given to her by a Hi-Lo Burger customer that takes issue with women’s clothing.
Here's what was inside:
“You may have been given this leaflet because of the way you are dressed,” it begins. “Have you thought about standing before the true and living God to be judged?”
It continues with one essential theme: The sins of men are, in part, the fault of women, specifically women in tight-fitting clothing. [...]
“Scripture tells us that when a man looks on a woman to lust for her he has already committed adultery in his heart. If you are dressed in a way that tempts a men to do this secret (or not so secret) sin, you are a participant in the sin,” the leaflet states. “By the way, some rape victims would not have been raped if they had dressed properly. So can we really say they were innocent victims?”
The hand-out is signed “anonymous.”
So all those elderly women and toddlers who have been raped asked for it?
Sandra G. Rasnake, the sexual assault program director at Bristol’s Crisis Center:
Victim blaming is the most prominent reason rapes are so rarely reported and even more rarely taken to trial. [...] It’s become a societal defense mechanism for dealing with issues of sexual assault. [...]
“Blaming victims is the way we who have not been victimized feel safer,” Rasnake said. “If it’s their fault then I’m safer because I wouldn’t do that. If someone steals your purse, can you imagine someone asking why you had a purse? If you are sexually assaulted, it is not because you come with breasts.”
Nothing like perpetuating the worst kind of message, huh? Lives are destroyed because of a selfish desire to feel more secure and blameless. Or to justify some religious belief. Hey, she asked for it! Slut! Okay, time to get back into my safe little cocoon... reality be damned... until I'm the rape victim.
“It’s insulting to men,” she said. “The men that I know and associate with are not so lust-driven that they cannot control their urges. By this person’s argument, everyone working at Hooters deserves to be raped.”
That last part reminds me of the controversy over Don't Ask Don't Tell. I've said this in the past, but it bears repeating: The implication is that gay men and women have so little control over their sexual urges that they have to be treated differently from straight men and women. Discrimination is justified.
So what about all those military rapes by straight men that have been reported?
To paint any group with a broad brush is absurd.
To blame women for being brutalized, both mentally and physically, is equally absurd.
To spread sick, destructive lies by way of religious literature is, well, a sin.

H/t: Mark Karlin at BuzzFlash





